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Wedding Wednesday! The Origins of 5 Interesting Wedding Traditions

Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013

The Origins of 5 Interesting Wedding Traditions

Weddings are multifaceted celebrations that are often steeped in tradition. Today, you can celebrate your family’s past by incorporating it into your own special day. To help you effortlessly combine the old and the new, the borrowed and the blue (or any other pop of color you may choose!), we share some charming traditions that have been passed down through the generations.

Below are 5 interesting wedding traditions and their origins.

Wedding party attire

Years ago, when people were slightly more superstitious, they were particularly concerned about evil spirits.  These spirits were perceived to be jealous of the happy bride and groom and, as a result, wished the couple harm.  To confuse these spectral enemies, the wedding party would dress in clothing similar to the nuptial pair.  By doing this, the groomsman and bridesmaids would confuse the evil spirits, rendering them unable to discern the actual bride and groom.

Wedding flowers

As another ward against evil spirits, brides of the past carried pungent collections of garlic, herbs and grains.  This tradition evolved into a beautiful, fragrant bouquet of flowers – many of which have specific meanings – which are thought to symbolize fertility and eternity.

Stomping the glass

At the end of Jewish ceremonies, the groom often steps on a cloth-wrapped glass or bulb, breaking it.  Wedding attendees yell “Mazel Tov!” (which literally translates to “good fortune” or “good luck” in Hebrew).  There are a few theories about the origin of the ritual: one suggests the breaking of the glass provides a symbolic reminder of the destruction of the temple in Jerusalem, whereas others claim it represents the fragility of a relationship or the breaking of old familial ties in favor of a new union.

Bachelor party

This tradition goes all the way back to when fifth century Spartans would celebrate with their soon-to-be wed friend the night before the ceremony.  There was eating, drinking, feasting and toasting.  These often-raucous parties (a la “The Hangover”) eventually evolved into more staid dinners hosted by the groom’s father or best man.  And now the ladies get to celebrate with their own version, the Bachelorette party!

Wedding cake

According to an article by Carol Wilson published in the Journal of Food and Culture, this delicious tradition may have evolved from Ancient Roman times when a piece of bread was broken over a bride’s head for good luck.  Today, wedding cakes come in every shape, size and design, and you can even go with an alternative dessert like cupcakes or macaroons!

These are a mere handful of wedding traditions – there are many, many more.  Keep an eye out for future David’s Bridal articles exploring more of these fascinating customs.


Wedding Wednesday! Here’s The Real Cost Of Being A Wedding Guest!

Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

When it comes to planning a wedding, most of the focus is on how much the bride and groom will have to pony up for their big day.

But what about the people who pay just for the pleasure of wishing them well?

A new survey found wedding guests and bridal parties expect to spend more than $500 on average this year –– a huge bump over 2012.

Between tux rentals, dress fittings, bachelor(ette) parties and pre-wedding showers, bridal party members will shell out $577 per person these days, compared to $377 in 2012.

As for the 69 million wedding guests expected to attend nuptials this year, they can expect to spend $539, up 59% since 2012.

The reason? Hotel and gas costs are rising, which means just getting to a wedding costs more than usual. And then there are the gifts, of course.

Guests spend about $108 on average on wedding gifts!


Wedding Wednesday! Candice McCain Transforms from a Size 28 to a Size 12 and is Renewing Her Vows!

Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

Candice McCain has graced the pages of People Magazine highlighting her huge weight loss success, and is renewing her vows to reaffirm her love and appreciation for her husband!  Tune in for the emotional journey as Candice comes into our store in search for the dress of her dreams, and even shows the wedding gown she wore when she was double her size- style L8555 Ivy Champ! She ultimately chooses DB Studio style D0216 that will make her feel confident as she shows off her new figure at one of the most important events of her life! Check out the video below!


Wedding Wednesday! You CAN Re-Wear Those Bridesmaids Dresses again!

Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

Good Morning DB Readers!! As you know, most women have a plethora of expensive bridesmaid’s, special occasion and prom dresses, and the first thought that comes to mind is “When will I ever be able to wear these again?” Well, luckily the knowledgeable staff at David’s Bridal knows the importance of value and can re-work any dress to make your outfit feel like new again!

From date nights and concerts to work attire and casual day wear, our experts can show you how to take your old dresses from drab to fab with accessories from your own closet! Think cowboy boots, chunky jewelry, cardigans and sashes- you’ll have so many new outfits to wear and the best part is…you won’t have to spend a dime!

Here are some tips from our experts on spicing up new outfits!

 Adding a jacket or cardigan for coverage

 Accessorizing with the right shoes for any occasion

 Creating a flattering silhouette with a belt at the waist

 Layering jewelry for a trendy effect

Below are a few great examples of outfits our experts have styled for wear again looks with clothing and accessories from their own closets!


Wedding Wednesday! Hair Inspiration for Brides To Be!

Thursday, April 11th, 2013

Good Morning DB Readers and Happy Wedding Wednesday!  For all of the brides to be planning their complete wedding outfits, one important aspect of the complete look is the HAIR!  Depending on the style of the dress will influence if you wear your hair up or down, braided,  curled, straight, the looks are endless! Here are our top three hair styles for a glamorous wedding look!

Look 1- Hair Down with Curls and a Headband

Look 2- Low Up-Do with a Headband

Look 3- Straight Hair


Wedding Wednesday! Have websites made all weddings look the same?

Wednesday, April 3rd, 2013

Happy Wedding Wednesday DB Readers! Some food for thought for you brides to be… how have you been planning your wedding? Like most brides who are turning to the internet and social media to plan their weddings in the digital age, Pinterest is the most popular outlet women are using!  But, a recent story claims that all weddings are starting to look the same because of the inspiration that everyone is embodying for their nuptials.  Read a great article below!

For many brides-to-be, the Internet is an endless source of visual inspiration, and websites like Pinterest have proved to be instrumental tools for streamlining ideas to incorporate into the big day.

But a recent story on the Huffington Post posed the question: Are these sites ruining weddings by making them look too similar?

“At first, I felt so inspired! Look at all these great ideas! How unique! How special and memorable my wedding will be!” wrote Rachel Weight, in a piece titled “Are weddings getting too ‘Pin-dictable?’”

“But lately I’ve realized that these Pinterest-y weddings are all starting the look exactly the same,” she complained. “There’s almost a formula for them.”

Weight noted that wedding blogs and online inspiration boards have turned elements like photo booths, chalkboards, café lights (often strewn from trees, with or without paper lanterns), sparklers and mason jars into ubiquitous clichés by circulating the same images over and over. Groomsmen in matching sneakers, pets serving as ring bearers and candy bars (or dessert bars of any kind) also rank high on the list of trends.

With so many brides-to-be sharing the same ideas and using their boards as reference for florists, planners and other vendors, are wedding planning websites ruining the creativity and individuality of weddings?

“Yes! Make it stop,” Elise Loehnen, the L.A based editor-in-chief of shopping website Beso.com, told TODAY.com. “What bums me out is to go to weddings where people have just adopted ‘clever’ or ‘cute’ ideas that aren’t even remotely relevant to who they are or what the event is about and then sort of stitched them together into a smorgasbord of I-Don’t-Get-It details.”

Portland-based publicist and bride-to-be CJ Frogozo tried the Pinterest route at the suggestion of co-workers, but quickly abandoned it after realizing that none of the ideas she found felt applicable to her or her fiancé’s taste.

“Everything looked the same,” she told TODAY. “I couldn’t find unique ideas. I started pinning and it started looking the same as other people’s boards.”

Tired of seeing endless pictures of table numbers held by clothespins, seat assignments written on chalkboards, and “signature drink” displays, Frogozo decided to go in a different direction. She chose wedding vendors that didn’t require her to bring in mood boards for reference, and worked with them to create original touches based on the aesthetic, food and flowers that felt most personal to her and her fiancé (case in point: cheeseburgers are being served as the main course at their reception.)

“It’s nice that everyone is so Pinterest-friendly these days, but we have to slow down, because people are just regurgitating the same ideas on there, which for the most part are not innovative or inspiring,” said L.A based event planner Yifat Oren, who works with celebrities such as Drew Barrymore, Reese Witherspoon and Anne Hathaway.

“The mason jars hanging from trees, the farm and rustic feel, really? Is there really a dresser sitting in the middle of a field? I’m getting tired of weddings that look like garage sales,” she said. “Ultimately, if you love something you should do it, but I think that people want something interesting.”

Plenty of brides and wedding planners still share inspiration online — and don’t care if their weddings are similar to others’.

“Of course, many wedding clichés exist, from mustaches to mason jars, but I do not believe that Pinterest is to blame,” wedding blogger Kate Myhre, who founded Modernlywed.com, told TODAY. “Just like any industry, these clichés started as trendy ideas that were quickly over used and continually reinforced through online media.”

She said sites like Pinterest can be a great resource for couples to collect inspiration and visualize wedding elements side by side, helping them pinpoint their personal style.

Ali Pomerantz, a Hollywood-based personal trainer getting married in August, agrees. She’s been using Pinterest to plan her nautical-chic wedding and found it’s helped her stay organized and inspired.

“There are ideas on there that I wouldn’t have thought of myself,” she said. “I’ve found it very helpful and inspiring.”

The bottom line is, if a couple getting married has a personal connection to trends like sparklers, fake mustaches and mason jars, then that’s all that matters, whether or not the idea is a wedding cliché.

“The details should make sense for the environment and the people who are getting married,” Loehnen said, “so that it feels fresh and deeply personal.”


Wedding Wednesday! Check out the most gorgeous dresses from Melissa Sweet!

Wednesday, March 27th, 2013

Hello DB Readers and Happy Wedding Wednesday! To start your day off right, we are talking about one of our favorite collections, Melissa Sweet!

If you’re on the hunt for the perfect wedding gown that is romantic, vintage, and inspired by times of the past, look no further than our Melissa Sweet Collection! WeddingThingz.com, a great blog for wedding inspiration for brides-to-be recently posted about the seven Melissa Sweet dresses in her first collection for David’s Bridal! Check out what they had to say below, and I’m sure you’ll be gushing over the gorgeous designs, too!


Wedding Wednesday! It’s National Proposal Day and we have some interesting statistics for you!

Wednesday, March 20th, 2013

Happy Wedding Wednesday Everyone! In honor of National Proposal Day (it’s today!), here are six statisticswe found out about how much brides love to spread good news and gather opinions on Pinterest, Skype, and Facebook.

Inspiration on the Internet: “59 percent of brides say online resources like Pinterest, Facebook and blogs are the best places to find wedding inspiration.”

Digital dressing rooms: “68 percent of brides use technology during their fittings, from texting pictures to family to posting videos on a social media site.”

Laying down the social media law: “56 percent of newlywed women think it’s important to have social media rules at the wedding.”

Virtual wedding guests: “Now trending, nearly half (49 percent) of all respondents say they would consider “skype-ing” their wedding.”

Dress embargo: “61 percent forbid their bridesmaids from uploading pics of the bride donning her dress before the ceremony.”

Follow the leader: “52 percent say the bride and groom must be the first to post a picture of their wedding to a social media site.”

Making it Facebook official: “Up 11 percent from 2011, 59 percent of brides will update their Facebook status to “married” or update their new name within a day of walking down the aisle.”


Wedding Wednesday! Brides to be… are YOU using social media to plan your wedding?!

Wednesday, March 13th, 2013

Good Morning and Happy Wedding Wednesday DB Readers!  Since spring is a great time to plan your wedding, brides around the country are utilizing magazines, wedding planning books, the internet and friends to plan the wedding of their dreams!  If you’re a tech savvy bride to be and utilize the internet for everything, we have an app that is PERFECT for you! Introducing… MyEvent! Here are some of the great features of our new wedding planning app:

  • Wedding Party – Invite friends and family to your private online space where you can all have fun communicating about the big day.
  • Newsfeed – Get real-time updates and host personalized discussions on wedding planning details.
  • Shopping Lists – Create lists of wedding must-haves for yourself, your bridesmaids, or anybody you choose, and keep track of everyone’s purchases.
  • Mood Boards – Design boards that represent your unique vision of your event and get inspiration from your party and the Public Gallery.
  • Task Lists – Prioritize, assign and organize wedding to-do’s.
  • Budget Planner – Get a breakdown of recommendations, make adjustments, and monitor spending.

Definitely check out the latest and greatest app amongst brides and give it a whirl!


Wedding Wednesday! Find out the hidden costs of your wedding attire you probably DON’T know about!

Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

Hello DB Readers and Happy Wedding Wednesday!! Since spring is a great time to plan weddings, we are very excited about all of the brides coming into our stores to find the gown of their dreams at an affordable price!  After you’ve tried on plenty of dresses and found “just the one”, remember your dress will most likely have to be altered! There are other hidden costs of your wedding attire- from your shoes and handbag to under garmets and garters! Our Design Director, Dan Rentillo was featured in an article on eHow about what brides should watch out for when buying their wedding attire! Read the entire article below!

Hidden Costs of Wedding Dresses

Three Little Things Can Make a Big Difference in Your Bridal Budget

Even brides ordering gowns custom-measured for them still need a little hemming … or a dart to pull in the side seam or bust.

— Mark Kingsdorf, bridal consultant, Philadelphia

These days, a wedding doesn’t come cheap. From the flowers and rehearsal dinner to the reception and, of course, the wedding gown, the laundry list of costs can add up. What’s more, when it comes to wedding attire, there’s a lot more to the price than what’s listed on the tag of your wedding dress.

Building the Foundation

Every great wedding dress starts with a fabulous foundation, including the proper undergarments and shapewear. Unfortunately, these are the first things many women forget to slip into their wedding budget.

“If you have the correct foundation, it can minimize your alterations (cost),” Smith said. “If you’re wearing the bra that puts everything in the right place, you zip up correctly, your waistline is sitting in the correct spot, (and) your bustline is in the appropriate portion of the dress. It can literally change the look of the garment.”

Mark Kingsdorf, master bridal consultant with The Queen of Hearts Wedding Consultants in Philadelphia, says everything from the fit and fabric to the construction of a gown can determine the best undergarments for a bride-to-be.

“Gowns with lighter, more opaque fabric may need more support and coverage,” he said. “Bigger-busted brides may need more support and choose to have the undergarments incorporated into the construction during alterations.”

While brides can always wear undergarments they already own, Smith says it’s essential to make sure you’re wearing the appropriate bra to fit the dress design.

Gorman says no bride should sacrifice shapewear — whether it’s a full-body slip or thigh shaper. Unfortunately, effective, quality shapewear can be costly, and Gorman says it hardly ever goes on sale. Though the quality and type of undergarments you purchase will determine the price range, women can expect to pay as much as $50 or more for a bra and each piece of shapewear.

While not all gowns require a petticoat, brides with dresses that need a little extra volume on the skirt will likely need to purchase one. Price varies depending on the style — like mermaid, A-line or ball gown — and an average petticoat comes in around $40, with many costing upward of $60.

Vintage Points

Once upon a time it was common for a bride to wear her mother’s wedding gown, or something like it down the aisle. That retro choice can save you a little money, but it doesn’t exactly come cheap or easy, says Jennifer Judd, co-owner of Heritage Garment Preservation in Benicia, California.

The cost of restoration varies from dress to dress, but Judd says brides should expect to spend between $350 and $550 to make an old gown look new.

And, just as with a new wedding gown, working with a vintage dress can have some unexpected costs, starting with button replacement.

“Many buttons from long ago tend to rust during the restoration process,” Judd says. “Some can be whitened, but be aware that there could be an additional charge to replace them. That could cost an additional $40, or around $1 to $1.50 per button.

Damaged lace will need to be replaced or repaired. Judd says that can cost up to $30 to $50 per hour for alterations and repair work. Finally, the dress itself may need a makeover.

“If the dress is really yellow or golden, with a lot of stains, it could have to be treated twice, which comes with an additional charge, too,” Judd said. The extra treatment can cost between $50 and $75.

Adding the Accessories

While it’s critical for brides to find the perfect dress, Gorman said bridal style is really defined by the accessories, be it a veil, hairpiece, jewelry or shoes.

Dan Rentillo, design director for David’s Bridal, says veils are a must. “A lot of women go in thinking they don’t want the veil, but once you put it on, it really transforms you,” he said. Depending on the length and detail of your veil, the cost can range from less than $100 to more than $400, with an average veil coming in around $120 in 2012.

Other brides go with a tiara or headband. “Tiaras, headbands and fascinators are not a must, but (they) finish off the look and come in all materials and embellishments,” Kingsdorf said. These can cost anywhere from a few dollars to $100 or more.

Gorman says a bride’s jewelry can make or break a look, but that doesn’t mean it has to break the bank or be over the top. Instead, it should be “chosen carefully to match the bride’s style of dress and wedding theme.” In fact, a bride can shine that day for fraction of the price if she rents jewelry for the wedding. Pricing varies significantly based on where you rent, but you can price shop on a site like Adorn.com.

When it comes to shoes, Rentillo suggests going for a new pair comfortable enough to wear all day long. Bridal shoe prices range from about $50 to $200 or more.

“In the past, it was very traditional for (brides) to wear white or ivory to go with the gown,” he said. “But now we’re finding that they kind of like to accessorize with a little bit of color.”

Garters are another item many women like to purchase for their special day, and depending on the material and quality the bride chooses, she can pay anywhere from $10 to $75.

In total, Gorman thinks women should budget an estimated $500 to $1,000 for extras such as headpieces, handbags, shoes and jewelry. A 2011 study by “Brides” magazine found that the average bride spends almost $600 on wedding-day accessories.

For women looking to cut this cost, Rentillo suggests sacrificing a purse or clutch.

“That’s where (brides) may opt for borrowing something,” he said.

Finding the Perfect Fit

Whether your gown is custom-made or bought off the rack, you’re likely to face alteration costs.

“We rarely see brides who don’t need any alterations,” Kingsdorf said. “Even brides ordering gowns custom-measured for them still need a little hemming … or a dart to pull in the side seam or bust.”

While the costs are determined by factors such as fabric, embellishments, and the bride’s height and body shape, Gorman says women should budget between $100 and $500 for alterations.

Kingsdorf says simpler gowns are often easy and inexpensive to alter. If it’s a detailed dress with intricate alterations, such as beading or lace detailing that needs to be removed, the price figures to go up.

“A gown with a very ornate hem may require shortening from the bottom,” he said. “Layered gowns require shortening each layer, and that becomes more time-consuming.”

If you choose to have bra cups, boning or corseting sewn into the gown, don’t forget to add these extra costs into your budget.